Sunday, April 22, 2018

Tips For Tackling A Teenager Broken Heart Head On

By Joshua Martin


As they move toward adulthood, teens progressively gain objectivity and become less emotional over time. However, they are not fully mature, either physically or emotionally, and can still be prone to moodiness and outbursts particularly when it comes to romantic concerns. As a parent, you may have no idea how to cope with a teenager broken heart or what to do to change your teen's outlook on life. You both can survive the episode by using some of these strategies for drawing your child's attention elsewhere.

During this particularly emotional time in the teen's life, the attention will be less on the creature comforts in life and more on the fact that he or she has been turned away by a proposed love interest. The comforts of life, including the child's phone, car, clothing, house, and loved ones, take a back seat to the desired goal, which is the person who spurned the romantic quest in the first place. These items are of no use to you in your efforts to calm the proverbial storm.

As the mom or dad, you may need to realize that the teen has been rejected, which can be difficult for you to deal with as well. However, while you can compartmentalize and objectify the situation, your son or daughter lacks that skill. All they know and can accept is that they have been rejected by the person at this point that they love the most.

Even your love as a mother or father might not be enough to heal the hurt. Most teens can accept that their moms and dads love them. However, in comparison to a romantic interest rejecting them, the parents' love is substandard, as hurtful as that might be as a parent to hear. Your affection cannot take precedence over the teenage love that they wanted to get in return.

With that, you might deal with the emotional turmoil the only way you know how as a parent. You could put your child to work. By keeping the teen busy, you divert the attention from the love dilemma and onto tasks that needed to be taken care of anyway. You keep him or her out of the bedroom where he or she may lament and cry over the breakup.

If the teen is too young to work outside of the home, he or she can work inside of the home. You might have plenty of work that can be done to turn the attention to a more pressing matter that will benefit the household. You can work the grief out of the situation and have tasks like cleaning, mowing, and other chores tackled accordingly.

If the jobs are done according to your satisfaction, you could treat the teen to a reward. Something like a new outfit or a day out at a fun resort can be a small consolation and another form of distraction. In time, your teen will forget about the loss of the love interest and focus on other things in life like school, friends, and possibly another person in which he or she is interested romantically.

The first romantic crisis in your teen's life does not have to be a disruptive event for the whole family. You can take the upper hand by using these approaches to the situation. You gain experience and can be ready for the next time that it happens.




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